Temperament is pretty constant your entire life (probably) and even biological. (Nature)
Personality is a layer above temperament, learned, culturally and experience influenced. (Nurture)
As noted with sadness by the world, we recently we lost a very well loved actor to suicide. I've been noticing the reactions everywhere: friends, family, clients, in our color community. It's a very, very painful subject, and to many quite personal. Robin Williams was so well known and so loved, not only for his genius with humor, but also with emotions. His acting reached depths that touched so many. But this post isn't really about Robin, so much as his loss raising the topic of depression and suicide (again) in our consciousness.
I have dealt with depression and suicide in my career and my family. As a part of my career as a licensed clinical social worker and mental health specialist, I have worked as a mental health responder when suicidal patients are being cared for in the ER.
I have had Dysthymia most of my life and two Major Depressive episodes (in addition to PTSD, social phobia and severe PMS), so like many, I have first hand experience with my own mental illness. I am highly functioning despite continuing to wrestle with this ongoing. Also, I thought I understood depression for years, dealing with Dysthymia, but it wasn't until I experienced my first true clinical major episode that I realized what so many of my clients were really dealing with. It is not just emotional, it is intensely physically life changing.
I am also a suicide survivor, though I wish there were a better word for it. I mean a family member of someone who died at their own hand as a result of mental illness and other pain. (It's quite personal, and not really what I want to write about here either, just to say that I have witnessed the devastating effect of mental illness on a person's judgment. I also have personal experience with the powerlessness of having mental health training and it not helping your own family member).
Well, I can't say there aren't exceptions, such as suicide bombing or choosing to die when the alternative would be crippling physical illness, but for the majority of suicides it is due to crippling depression which completely distorts one's sense of options, and it may be gravely influenced by sudden impulsivity, by medications, alcohol, drugs, etc.
I have included information here before about depression and how it may be experienced differently by the four humors. Why have I done so? I've shared about my own depression and I believe it takes it's toll on appearance. But I've also been interested in how everyone can face depression, but the course and form it takes might be slightly different based on your temperament.
Essentially according to temperament author, Tim LaHaye: Sanguines are the least vulnerable to depression because they can divert their attention and are the most skilled at lifting their own spirits and others, but may be more susceptible to mania or hypomania; and the low energy level of Phlegmatics may make them more likely to experience chronic low grade depression (or dysthymia); while Cholerics are said to struggle more with anger and to be achievement driven and thus depressed if they are not meeting their own goals; and finally Melancholics give away in the very name of their humor that their sensitive and perfectionistic natures lead them to be vulnerable to deep sadness.
On the Ptypes site, there is a correlation of temperaments and personality styles, which I've posted before, which also says:
- Sanguine & Artisan is "The Hypomanic Personality" (anxious or mildly manic)
- Phlegmatic & Guardian: "The Depressive Personality"
- Choleric & Rational: "The Anesthetic Personality" (insensitive)
- Melancholic & Idealist: "The Hyperesthetic Personality" (overly sensitive)
It seems to follow that Robin's creative gifts came with an almost hypomania (though again we don't really know his diagnosis). More people are on the bipolar scale than only having unipolar depression also. Those who are on the bipolar scale tend to have even worse depression. So even though sanguines are said to have less depression, what if when they do it's actually worse?
If you've read the DYT post about Robin Williams, it is stated essentially that mental illness comes from not living true to your type. First off, if there was anyone who lived absolutely true to their nature it would seem to have been Robin, the very essence of a Type 1 animated sanguine being. There is no way to know the full story of his mental and physical illnesses without being his medical provider. We also cannot know what treatment and healing he sought and integrated over the years. It seems to be agreed that he was depressed and had Parkinson's according to his wife. He had also had major heart surgery. He was also a recovering alcoholic and reportedly sober at the time, though had been to treatment multiple times, the latest after his last TV series was cancelled. Even though we still can't really know his truth, that is a lot on one person's plate. It seems limited and simplistic to attribute this tragedy to whether he was in line with his true nature adequately.
I think this also raises a whole series of questions about assumptions we make about the temperaments that diminish them or put them into boxes that are too small. With regard to the sanguine nature, and the lightness they are gifted at bringing, does that mean they can never be heavy, or down, or sad? That is ridiculous. But if you don't think about it, isn't it sort of a lazy implication? I have had many sanguine clients in my office who are anything but glib or happy in the moment they are processing something deeply.
I guess what I'm also saying here is that your type can actually have it's specific susceptibilities. And actually, I feel that the advice to live in line with your authentic nature is a bit limited. In part, knowing your true nature may make you need to counterbalance certain aspects of your tendencies, as a part of your healing. In fact, that is a part of the overall DYT message, I just think it got sorely truncated in the tribute post.
In my post with excerpts from Dr. Haushka's Awakening Beauty, I share how she mentions that each temperament has a "positive and negative pole" which we need to balance. So, for example, sanguines have an all or nothing quality, sometimes lacking connection to their body, if they are moving between many points of focus, and vigorous exercise keeps them grounded and strengthens the nervous system; and phlegmatics can become sedentary and bored, and should of course avoid phlegm and stagnation causing dairy and take up hobbies that are uplifting and inspiring; while cholerics' firey nature, which can lead to frustration and anger, benefits from attention paid to relaxation and avoiding spicy foods and alcohol; and finally melancholics tend to worry and wallow at their worst, and live in their heads moreso than their body as well, they need to work on warming their body with their food choices and keeping active.
So I think living in accordance with your type is certainly the goal, but that has to mean living in the healthiest manner with both your gifts and your tendencies towards specific imbalances caused by your nature.
A few notes on his Human Design & Astrology
As a Generator Aura Type (see his chart below), Robin's motor was the Sacral center and it looks like he had Emotional Authority. His head, ajna, throat and G centers were open. Having an open head and ajna probably made him very open to inspiration and variety in the way he thought, and having an open throat certainly seems to have contributed to his amazing ability to not only speak a lot, but quickly and with so many different characters and voices.
Karen Curry shared in her email newsletter about Robin Williams' Human Design. One thing she emphasized was his open G center. (Note below that his is white, rather than yellow). She wrote: "When the G-center is undefined (colored in white on the chart), it is very common for people to question their own lovability. Often people with an open G also struggle with self-awareness. It's quite possible that Robin had no clue how deeply loved and adored he was."
Robin had a cardinal Tsquare in his chart, which usually show major karmic challenges. Where Jupiter and Neptune were in opposition, both squared by his Mars. In Cardinal T-squares "...impulsiveness is a prominent feature. Planets in Cardinal signs feel a need to act immediately. Patience is not a priority here. The Cardinal T-Square tends to be the most active of the T-Squares, although not the most productive. Coercing the three placements to work together can be the challenge. The nature is for each energy to do its own thing, causing conflicts and disjointed activities to become the main focus." source
Here is Astrolada's comments also: http://www.astrolada.com/robin-williams-astrology-perspective
According to Matthew Currie, on Robin's chart: "Moon in sensitive Pisces opposite Venus in Virgo. A Moon in Pisces is sensitive enough to life’s discomforts as it is, without any oppositions. The Moon’s ruler was Neptune, and Robin’s Neptune was in the 12th house. This is always the mark of someone who could stand to have some form of spiritual retreat in his life. It seems unlikely that the nature of his busy Hollywood lifestyle would allow for that sort of thing a lot, although he did end up in rehab a few times. The potential for something alone does not guarantee it will definitely happen. There was more to this suicide then simply indicators of depression in the birth chart. There were difficult transits happening when he died..."
Read this article by Matthew Currie about his astrology:
... but hey, don't listen to me, EXPRESS YOUR TRUTH! Jane